Living the Blessed Life

living the blessed lifeThe Bible says the fool has said in his heart there is no God. Indeed, such a person is a fool. But I believe there is an even greater fool. It is the one who believes in God, but proceeds to live his life as if God does not exist. The greatest fool in my estimation is the person who Read More

Winning Over Discouragement

winning_through_discouragementWhat does a child of God need when facing a mountain of discouragement? When the progress she needs to make in her life is not happening and her best efforts to accomplish a positive goal are going no where? When he or she is facing a mountain of discouragement that just won’t move? A word from God, like the one God spoke to Zerubbabel!

After seventy years of captivity in Babylon, about 50,000 Jewish men and women under the leadership of Zerubbabel returned to Jerusalem with a dream of rebuilding the city. Soon work began on the Temple. With much enthusiasm and support, they erected the altar and restored the sacrificial system of worship. Next, they completed the foundation of the Temple and held a powerful thanksgiving service.

Then, trouble hit. Some of the older Jewish people, comparing it to Solomon’s Temple, began to criticize the work. And the local residents, Samaritans, decided they would do every thing within their power to frustrate Zerubbabel’s efforts to rebuild Jerusalem. They hired people to oppose the Jews and wrote letters to the new Persian king accusing the Jews of rebellion. And they succeeded in persuading the king to issue a decree that brought the rebuilding efforts to a halt. For sixteen long years, Zerubbabel’s dream remained at a stand-still! A mountain stood before him, one he could not move, no matter how hard he tried.

Then The Lord sent a message to Zerubbabel through the prophet Zechariah:

So he answered and said to me: “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: ‘Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,’ says the Lord of hosts. ‘Who are you, O great mountain? Before Zerubbabel you shall become a plain! And he shall bring forth the capstone with shouts of “Grace, grace to it!” ’ ” (Zechariah 4:6, 7 NKJV)

After sixteen years of being at a standstill, God says to His servant, “I know what you are thinking and how discouraged you feel. But I have come to let you know I will finish this work I started through you. That great mountain that stands in your way will become a plain. Don’t worry about its size because you won’t have to move it. It is not about your resources or your resoluteness. I will move it by My Spirit. And it will be by My grace, not your works! ”

If you are feeling discouraged because time is passing and important, God-given assignments and goals for your life, your family, or your ministry remain unfulfilled, this Word is for you. This is not the time to give up. Rather, this is the time, like Zerubbabel, to hear God say to you, “This mountain shall become a plain, not by your power, but according to My Spirit and by My grace.”

Child of God, be encouraged. Our Heavenly Father has entrusted your progress and success into the capable hands of the Holy Spirit. So what He asks of you is not your human strength, just your simple faith. All He needs is for you to believe with your heart that the Holy Spirit, to whom He has given this assignment of completion, is wise enough to know what needs to be done, strong enough to do whatever it takes, and good enough to do so in the way that is best.

So Don’t give up. Trust! God has promised to finish what He started in you. And the Spirit is well able!

Parenting God’s Way

Parenting_God's_Way_Hispanic_Family_EblastWhat is the solution to not provoking our children? It is to “bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” Our Heavenly Father is a lover and an encourager. So, if our children are becoming resentful and discouraged as the result of our words and actions, we are not bringing them up His way. But if parents do it God’s way, their children will feel very loved and immensely encouraged.

The Scriptures teach the job of parents is to “nourish” their children. (Ephesians 6:4) This means parents are expected to Read More

How Parents Provoke Their Children

How-Parents-Provoke-Their-Children_eblastAsk a typical man what he does, and you’d likely hear about his career. “I’m a teacher.” “I’m an accountant.” “I’m a doctor.” Seldom will you hear him say first, “I’m a dad.” But the job of being a parent is by far the most important job on earth.

Children are indeed precious to God and, without doubt, His most valuable possessions on earth. It is an awesome thing that He would entrust them into the hands of earthly parents. This is huge. Being the CEO of a Fortune 500 company doesn’t even come close!

The job of a parent is to nourish their children spiritually, emotionally, and physically. The goal is to Read More

My Parents Don’t Know Nuthin’

my_parent_dont_know_nuthin_eblast“Before I got married I had six theories about bringing up children; now I have six children and no theories.” (John Wilmot, Earl of Rochester). Without doubt, being a good parent is the most challenging and most underrated assignment on earth. It’s also the most important and most rewarding, even when it doesn’t feel so!

As a child growing up, you probably remember how often you thought your parents were anything but good for you. You may have wondered what you did to God for Him to punish you like this. And on more than one occasion, you wanted to Read More

How a Man Ought to Love a Woman

how_a_man_out_to_love_a_woman_eblast_3Guys, The Lord gave you only one instruction concerning your wife. Not ten, just one! And here it is.

“Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the Church.” (Eph.5:25) Not lord it over her, not abuse her, not enslave her–love her! Could not be any simpler, more clear, less complicated!

Love her how? In the Read More

Just Killing Time!

just_killing_timeOn more than one occasion I’ve asked someone what he was doing and got the response, “Just killing time.” Unfortunately, that’s what many people do with the time God gives them–they just kill it. But what a sad thing to do with time! When you are killing time, you are not just committing murder. You are Read More

Part 2–Submit? You Must Be Kidding!

Submission cannot be obtained by force. It must be given freely. A person who tries to force his or her spouse to submit may succeed in getting that person to obey, but that type of compliance is servitude, not biblical submission. One would expect to see that in a master-slave relationship, not in a godly marriage.

Admittedly, however, submitting to your spouse willingly can be very difficult, even when he or she is right! As far back as the Read More

Submit? You Must Be Kidding! (Part 1)

submit_you_mus_be_kidding_blogI remember being accosted by two women years ago at a wedding because I said that the wife was to submit to her husband. In this day and age, the idea of submission has taken on very negative connotations. And for good reasons!

Too many with authority Read More

Are You Ready for Marriage?

are_you_ready_for_marriageMarriage is for grown-ups. It is not for children. It’s too complicated for the immature.

But maturity is not about age. The world is filled with children who live in adult bodies; with babies who are six feet tall, with small boys who have Read More